Divorced Virgin, 42, Explores BDSM World and Finds Excitement

Published: June 20, 2025

Rhasha, a 42-year-old divorced virgin, is taking a leap of faith into the world of BDSM, and it seems she's loving every minute of it. In an exclusive sneak peek at the June 23 episode of TLC's Virgins, Rhasha can be seen exploring the world of bondage during a visit to a kink club. "When you tie up people like this, do you do the spanking stuff?" Rhasha asks with curiosity, to which the instructor replies, "Yeah, we can do that too."

As the instructor explains the various forms of impact play, including floggers and paddles, Rhasha's eyes light up with excitement. "Is it going to be hard?" she asks, to which the instructor reassures her that it won't be, and that they'll start off nice and soft. Before proceeding, the instructor explains the check-in system they use, which includes a red, yellow, and green signal to ensure Rhasha's safety.

As the instructor begins to use the flogger on Rhasha, she can be seen getting spanked and confesses in a confessional, "A man has never touched private areas for me, and it's very exciting. I feel really good." Rhasha adds, "I like getting spanked with the flogger. It did not hurt at all. It was just like something that I needed all my life."

Rhasha's journey into the world of BDSM began on the premiere of Virgins, where she shared her desire for a dominant partner who would "manhandle me." She added, "I need to get tied up, I need to get spanked. It's steamy, it's stank. Sorry, mom." Rhasha referred to herself as "a late bloomer," stating that she wasn't attracted to them until her mid-20s due to being overweight and lacking confidence in herself.

Rhasha hopes to find someone who she feels "safe with, to unleash the wild woman in me. That's what I want to find." Virgins airs Mondays at 9 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.